Who gets what? A simple guide to the Property (Relationships) Act

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Who gets what? A simple guide to the Property (Relationships) Act

A clear, plain-English guide to the Property (Relationships) Act 1976.

5 November 2025

Hannah Hilliam
AI

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New Zealand's Property (Relationships) Act governs how assets are divided when a relationship ends. It applies to married, civil union, and de facto couples, typically after three years.

The default is a 50/50 split of relationship property, which includes the family home and KiwiSaver funds accrued during the relationship. Separate property can become shared if intermingled. Couples can create a legally binding contracting-out agreement with independent legal advice to set their own rules.

What is the Property (Relationships) Act?

Who does the property relationships act apply to?

What is a de facto couple?

What counts as “relationship property”?

What is not “relationship property”?

When separate property becomes shared (a.k.a. “intermingling”)

Is everything split 50/50?

Relationship property agreements (a.k.a. “prenups”)

What happens when you separate

Where to get help

Property (Relationships) Act - FAQs

How long before equal sharing applies in a de facto relationship?

Can we opt out of the 50/50 rules?

Does everything always get split in half?

Do KiwiSaver balances get split?

Is a house bought before marriage relationship property?

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